Dealing With Inner Conflict. This video is about learning to accepting our inner confusion. This video uses Paul McLain’s ‘triune brain theory’ as a model to show how different parts of us can be pulling us in different directions at the same time. My hope is that we can come to accept these different parts of ourselves which are aiming to serve us in some way. Once we can accept what is happening inside of ourselves without beating ourselves up, we have the chance to gain awareness and control in our lives.